Co dependence is the inability to maintain healthy relationships with others and with himself. In this type of relationship there is no direct discussion of the problems, feelings, honest and open communication, realistic expectations, perfectionism, etc.
This disease affects not only the families of addicts but also people whose behavior and reactions to life are a means of survival.
They live in function of others, have low self-esteem and intense feeling of guilt, among other self annulment attitudes.
It can also be fatal, depression, suicide, etc. As dependent co people know suffering, but feel they need this instability to live and attach it to the love they feel for the other person and not to co dependence however created.
They begin to need the drama, the daily struggle and uncertainty to feel alive. The treatment of first acceptance of this condition through psychotherapy in order to cope with the situation and adopt new behaviors.